Problem

I said he wasn't ***y.  I shouldn't be related to his crap.  My aunt offered to pay for me to go up north to visit my Gramma, and we used to go ourselves.  Also, I was gonna see a concert that we'd stay at a hotel in, and now I might see something else..  I just told him I didn't feel like it after I asked and he went.. he even made it so I couldn't eat at the table nor leave my room..  He won't shut up.  I said it but don't see what's wrong with it.  I just knew it wasn't the best thing to do but not "bad."  I can visit up north without him torturing me.  I have my own life!  I don't want him.  What happened to our relationship?  He's just gonna go out in the world and hold his shit then.